Comments on: More Brain Droppings From Jenni http://www.transadvocate.com/more-brain-droppings-from-jenni.htm a blog for every advocate Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:27:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Katherine Mattingly http://www.transadvocate.com/more-brain-droppings-from-jenni.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3039 Katherine Mattingly Mon, 20 Apr 2009 01:32:06 +0000 http://www.transadvocate.com/?p=658#comment-3039 I never heard of the Gender Binary myself until I read it here. I rather think that alot of us felt somewhat like we had to fit into some sort of mold in the begining of our transitions. I was depressed on many occasions because i felt i was not able to fit that mold. I think as we move along that transition road though that we actually grow. We come to realize its just as you said. We have been fighting all this time with being who we really are and yet we were still trying to be what we thought others thought we should be. Once we are able to realize that and understand that just being yourself is the important thing. I know in my case it really helped me on the inside when I finally got that. I am me now. I am so proud of who I am. All it took was just opening my eyes. Stand tall, stand proud, be the true you. You will be so much happier, life is so wonderful. best wishes to all. I never heard of the Gender Binary myself until I read it here. I rather think that alot of us felt somewhat like we had to fit into some sort of mold in the begining of our transitions. I was depressed on many occasions because i felt i was not able to fit that mold. I think as we move along that transition road though that we actually grow. We come to realize its just as you said. We have been fighting all this time with being who we really are and yet we were still trying to be what we thought others thought we should be. Once we are able to realize that and understand that just being yourself is the important thing. I know in my case it really helped me on the inside when I finally got that. I am me now. I am so proud of who I am. All it took was just opening my eyes. Stand tall, stand proud, be the true you. You will be so much happier, life is so wonderful. best wishes to all.

]]> By: Katherine Mattingly http://www.transadvocate.com/more-brain-droppings-from-jenni.htm/comment-page-1#comment-7492 Katherine Mattingly Mon, 20 Apr 2009 01:32:00 +0000 http://www.transadvocate.com/?p=658#comment-7492 I never heard of the Gender Binary myself until I read it here. I rather think that alot of us felt somewhat like we had to fit into some sort of mold in the begining of our transitions. I was depressed on many occasions because i felt i was not able to fit that mold. I think as we move along that transition road though that we actually grow. We come to realize its just as you said. We have been fighting all this time with being who we really are and yet we were still trying to be what we thought others thought we should be. Once we are able to realize that and understand that just being yourself is the important thing. I know in my case it really helped me on the inside when I finally got that. I am me now. I am so proud of who I am. All it took was just opening my eyes. Stand tall, stand proud, be the true you. You will be so much happier, life is so wonderful. best wishes to all. I never heard of the Gender Binary myself until I read it here. I rather think that alot of us felt somewhat like we had to fit into some sort of mold in the begining of our transitions. I was depressed on many occasions because i felt i was not able to fit that mold. I think as we move along that transition road though that we actually grow. We come to realize its just as you said. We have been fighting all this time with being who we really are and yet we were still trying to be what we thought others thought we should be. Once we are able to realize that and understand that just being yourself is the important thing. I know in my case it really helped me on the inside when I finally got that. I am me now. I am so proud of who I am. All it took was just opening my eyes. Stand tall, stand proud, be the true you. You will be so much happier, life is so wonderful. best wishes to all.

]]> By: Jayna http://www.transadvocate.com/more-brain-droppings-from-jenni.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3020 Jayna Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:42:37 +0000 http://www.transadvocate.com/?p=658#comment-3020 For me about the gender binary thing....I really get irked at people who push that need for us to fit into the gender binary and I also get irked at people who attack others for some sort of failure to not be against the binary enough. Peeps need to chillax. You are effeminate because you have long hair like a hippie or norse princess. For me about the gender binary thing….I really get irked at people who push that need for us to fit into the gender binary and I also get irked at people who attack others for some sort of failure to not be against the binary enough. Peeps need to chillax.

You are effeminate because you have long hair like a hippie or norse princess.

]]> By: Jayna http://www.transadvocate.com/more-brain-droppings-from-jenni.htm/comment-page-1#comment-7491 Jayna Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:42:00 +0000 http://www.transadvocate.com/?p=658#comment-7491 For me about the gender binary thing....I really get irked at people who push that need for us to fit into the gender binary and I also get irked at people who attack others for some sort of failure to not be against the binary enough. Peeps need to chillax. You are effeminate because you have long hair like a hippie or norse princess. For me about the gender binary thing….I really get irked at people who push that need for us to fit into the gender binary and I also get irked at people who attack others for some sort of failure to not be against the binary enough. Peeps need to chillax.

You are effeminate because you have long hair like a hippie or norse princess.

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