http://www.transadvocate.com/agree-or-disagree.htm a blog for every advocate Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:19:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.transadvocate.com/agree-or-disagree.htm/comment-page-1#comment-8886 Kokoform Sat, 13 Aug 2011 07:47:00 +0000 http://194013093#comment-8886 a young middle eastern 18 year old boy arrives in the United states with nothing, literally, and not knowing anybody here. the rest was a true "Alice In Wonderland"-like adventure. in a few years he was able to establish an incredible life for him and for his family. when ever people here the details of his journey while going from zero to hero , they are amazed at the physical and financial challenges and successes that he has went through and achieved, yet no one realizes that his biggest achievements have been made in his mind and sole. no one focuses on all the incredible effects this journey has had on his reinvestigating of his opinions about woman , homosexuality, relationships, equality, etc...no one realizes that the biggest achievement of them all has been overcoming a strict culture soaked with the effects of religion and society, to finally be able to discover and admit who he really is , and that he was never a he but a she that was never allowed to be. now faced with the truth that is so great yet so scary he is ready to do something about it but does not know how and what to do especially that now , in his 30s , there is more than he or she , there is a family and a long life senior executive corporate career that are all a big part of his or her life.... what to do. he though that he either does nothing and hides as he has done so well, i mean after all he is that superman that came with nothing and did it all, or he tells his story and goes all out.... what to do .... the question is if he was to go all out and tell the story , who does he tell it to and how does he find the right set of ears that would understand and help...any advice ! thanks a young middle eastern 18 year old boy arrives in the United states with nothing, literally, and not knowing anybody here. the rest was a true “Alice In Wonderland”-like adventure. in a few years he was able to establish an incredible life for him and for his family. when ever people here the details of his journey while going from zero to hero , they are amazed at the physical and financial challenges and successes that he has went through and achieved, yet no one realizes that his biggest achievements have been made in his mind and sole. no one focuses on all the incredible effects this journey has had on his reinvestigating of his opinions about woman , homosexuality, relationships, equality, etc…no one realizes that the biggest achievement of them all has been overcoming a strict culture soaked with the effects of religion and society, to finally be able to discover and admit who he really is , and that he was never a he but a she that was never allowed to be. now faced with the truth that is so great yet so scary he is ready to do something about it but does not know how and what to do especially that now , in his 30s , there is more than he or she , there is a family and a long life senior executive corporate career that are all a big part of his or her life…. what to do. he though that he either does nothing and hides as he has done so well, i mean after all he is that superman that came with nothing and did it all, or he tells his story and goes all out…. what to do ….
the question is if he was to go all out and tell the story , who does he tell it to and how does he find the right set of ears that would understand and help…any advice !
thanks

]]> http://www.transadvocate.com/agree-or-disagree.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3036 Josephine Shaffer Sun, 19 Apr 2009 21:07:45 +0000 http://194013093#comment-3036 I agree that this place is good enough for discussion about me living as a female it's excellent indeed. I agree that this place is good enough for discussion about me living as a female it’s excellent indeed.

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